living in now

living in now

a joyful life of detached curiosity, openness, and contentment
accept reality without assigning meaning,
become calm, centered, and grounded,
then, and only then,
seek understanding with curiousity, openness, and without judgment
and process, calmly, so you can
respond rationally and effectively
discover joy, peace, unconscious happiness
through practicing contentment and gratitude

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

self deception relationships challenges freedom natural hope contentment perception death pain perfection healing truth triggers dependence control grief self care success expectations action damage peace reactivity appreciation progress in your feelings self forgiveness goals convictions suppression cooperation failure weakness insanity challenge consequences detachment self definition persistence self programming supply condemnation delusion processing communication rabbits mistakes safety forgiveness personas life mindfulness growth worth strength acceptance cognitive distortions choices responsibility happiness self awareness flow accountability beliefs self discovery love counterdependence openness self acceptance intrinsic actions insecurity path of growth celebration blind spots self reliance self control grounding struggle hurt attachments fear reality present trust authenticity stumbles commitment belief centering solitude people pleasing grace bitterness self knowledge self consciousness existing projection vulnerability self love wisdom breakup magnification gratitude narcissism isolation stuck resetting consistency connection trauma response externalization denial conscious living focus suffering attachment manipulation change resentment codependency breathe meditation support toxicity care validation mindset definition adapt destination feelings unstuck impermanence intimacy journey anger thoughts subconscious choice learning disqualifying the positive complaining judgment setbacks attention initiative expectation soul death boundaries honesty lessons momentum now anxiety abundance self talk personal responsibility kindness triggered compassion understanding respect reset worry
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