living in now

living in now

a joyful life of detached curiosity, openness, and contentment
accept reality without assigning meaning,
become calm, centered, and grounded,
then, and only then,
seek understanding with curiousity, openness, and without judgment
and process, calmly, so you can
respond rationally and effectively
discover joy, peace, unconscious happiness
through practicing contentment and gratitude

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

control rabbits challenge honesty support supply feelings perception manipulation people pleasing care validation relationships existing self acceptance healing initiative consequences subconscious actions perfection love flow pain lessons self talk setbacks solitude centering respect disqualifying the positive mindset mindfulness freedom breathe insecurity cooperation suffering choices complaining reality belief insanity beliefs progress gratitude growth conscious living intimacy fear breakup expectations grace resetting bitterness suppression denial hurt trauma action kindness responsibility attachments challenges thoughts destination weakness self control in your feelings accountability blind spots commitment resentment self deception counterdependence vulnerability self love appreciation now death triggered journey path of growth delusion boundaries narcissism reactivity struggle triggers worth grounding self consciousness expectation abundance forgiveness self care self definition judgment learning understanding stumbles personas trust persistence adapt personal responsibility safety hope damage self programming codependency self reliance convictions peace isolation connection toxicity dependence attachment anxiety celebration cognitive distortions life externalization anger soul death focus magnification reset strength condemnation compassion change failure truth happiness processing self knowledge present stuck self awareness unstuck success attention projection natural communication intrinsic response goals meditation momentum openness mistakes authenticity impermanence acceptance grief self discovery choice self forgiveness contentment definition worry detachment consistency wisdom
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