living in now

living in now

a joyful life of detached curiosity, openness, and contentment
accept reality without assigning meaning,
become calm, centered, and grounded,
then, and only then,
seek understanding with curiousity, openness, and without judgment
and process, calmly, so you can
respond rationally and effectively
discover joy, peace, unconscious happiness
through practicing contentment and gratitude

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

manipulation path of growth struggle challenges blind spots commitment actions peace personal responsibility setbacks adapt support honesty bitterness strength attachment beliefs people pleasing self knowledge trauma personas self discovery condemnation choices focus self forgiveness respect change counterdependence lessons delusion failure intrinsic subconscious journey suffering success grace wisdom pain self reliance mindfulness momentum flow abundance destination appreciation dependence trust openness worry action learning self deception suppression consequences consistency freedom persistence self acceptance cooperation projection insecurity truth safety forgiveness compassion celebration detachment connection disqualifying the positive worth anxiety choice now perfection fear responsibility self definition authenticity convictions weakness isolation response grounding acceptance cognitive distortions contentment externalization self talk vulnerability self consciousness challenge growth existing validation gratitude attachments magnification unstuck soul death feelings toxicity control thoughts love definition stumbles mistakes intimacy kindness attention communication stuck impermanence rabbits goals resetting mindset anger life denial complaining processing codependency supply hurt progress accountability belief perception initiative resentment grief in your feelings reactivity healing narcissism self love meditation self awareness damage breathe present self care hope centering boundaries breakup expectation relationships triggered care conscious living reset triggers reality solitude self control insanity natural understanding death judgment happiness expectations self programming
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