living in now

living in now

a joyful life of detached curiosity, openness, and contentment
accept reality without assigning meaning,
become calm, centered, and grounded,
then, and only then,
seek understanding with curiousity, openness, and without judgment
and process, calmly, so you can
respond rationally and effectively
discover joy, peace, unconscious happiness
through practicing contentment and gratitude

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

definition self definition resetting counterdependence momentum dependence truth progress self forgiveness challenges grief contentment existing choices expectation trauma change anxiety insanity action codependency toxicity care validation hope stuck fear suppression personas resentment control condemnation insecurity mindfulness intrinsic judgment communication triggered mindset expectations present self deception attention goals self care boundaries self love natural intimacy consistency safety self consciousness people pleasing subconscious destination relationships now grace trust solitude struggle peace meditation narcissism conscious living attachments setbacks beliefs response suffering centering complaining convictions responsibility actions consequences healing life freedom wisdom anger path of growth self discovery self talk supply flow forgiveness rabbits respect magnification openness commitment projection blind spots attachment adapt accountability love belief self programming choice self reliance celebration honesty worth personal responsibility breakup reality persistence feelings focus acceptance grounding self awareness journey growth kindness delusion reset self knowledge manipulation weakness in your feelings learning strength self acceptance disqualifying the positive isolation perception thoughts mistakes understanding abundance breathe soul death support worry appreciation cognitive distortions success happiness connection triggers denial perfection bitterness unstuck processing death impermanence lessons pain cooperation externalization initiative authenticity failure gratitude challenge hurt reactivity stumbles vulnerability self control compassion detachment damage
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