living in now

living in now

a joyful life of detached curiosity, openness, and contentment
accept reality without assigning meaning,
become calm, centered, and grounded,
then, and only then,
seek understanding with curiousity, openness, and without judgment
and process, calmly, so you can
respond rationally and effectively
discover joy, peace, unconscious happiness
through practicing contentment and gratitude

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

personal responsibility mindset complaining disqualifying the positive boundaries damage present control action peace perfection self care self definition natural response worry authenticity projection relationships expectations toxicity intrinsic condemnation detachment forgiveness compassion centering strength love stuck self awareness mindfulness initiative kindness impermanence magnification anger self control intimacy support attachments actions death pain celebration momentum conscious living success persistence openness accountability beliefs solitude acceptance in your feelings path of growth people pleasing personas understanding healing trauma journey insecurity manipulation cognitive distortions progress grounding failure struggle feelings breakup meditation consistency resentment hope choice grief stumbles wisdom challenge flow subconscious self knowledge reset happiness choices communication lessons triggers contentment resetting trust gratitude bitterness commitment expectation adapt dependence responsibility supply now mistakes self deception learning goals attachment suffering isolation freedom destination narcissism thoughts counterdependence vulnerability life codependency suppression self love cooperation weakness insanity validation change challenges self forgiveness fear self discovery blind spots care self reliance connection anxiety grace truth reactivity rabbits setbacks consequences delusion breathe growth self consciousness existing appreciation judgment self talk attention safety definition worth honesty unstuck hurt externalization denial abundance triggered self programming convictions focus reality soul death perception respect belief self acceptance processing
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