“As I grow older, I pay less attention to what people say. I just watch what they do.”
— Andrew Carnegie
accept who people are
who their actions
reveal them to be
without judgment
or expectation
or attachment
to them being more
or already being
further along
their own path of growth
“I don’t trust words, I trust actions.”
— Unknown
you are not
who you think you are
who you tell yourself you are
who you want to believe you are
who you want others to think you are
you are
what you actually do
and changing that
begins with
brutal honesty with yourself
facing the truth your actions and choices reveal
about who you are
avoiding no ugly truth
no hard feelings
accepting who you are revealed to be
working diligently to understand yourself
and then out of acceptance and understanding
making new, better choices
over and over