living in now

existing

false selves are the easy way out

thoughtkick:

“It’s a hell of a responsibility to be yourself. It’s much easier to be somebody else or nobody at all.”

Sylvia Plath

it’s much more terrifying

than crafting a false persona

a fake personality, a fake person

or persons

culled from popular culture

and your friends

in order to be accepted

but it’s a slow death

on the inside, dying

while still living

just existing

safety soul death respect unstuck condemnation subconscious personal responsibility reactivity bitterness reality toxicity people pleasing intimacy in your feelings care anxiety self acceptance perception belief personas conscious living support destination grief lessons counterdependence abundance suppression supply communication judgment rabbits stumbles forgiveness responsibility feelings pain celebration happiness convictions challenges mistakes success understanding relationships centering grounding peace damage natural kindness attachment cognitive distortions impermanence breakup narcissism self love flow progress suffering stuck path of growth grace journey self deception resentment accountability self programming meditation commitment learning codependency expectations contentment triggered self definition present fear initiative definition projection setbacks mindfulness delusion blind spots adapt self reliance persistence freedom disqualifying the positive worry compassion isolation action self forgiveness trauma momentum insecurity strength trust struggle expectation triggers self consciousness response mindset healing life appreciation consequences gratitude attachments wisdom thoughts choices insanity acceptance self knowledge hurt connection honesty perfection manipulation openness self care weakness failure consistency externalization truth reset hope existing self control self talk processing worth focus intrinsic death breathe detachment anger dependence choice goals growth resetting self discovery actions authenticity complaining vulnerability magnification boundaries challenge love denial self awareness cooperation validation control solitude now change attention beliefs
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