living in now

failure

breakup realizations

For me, I just come to a place of recognizing they are who they are.
Who am I to want something different for them?
And stepping out of the way to allow them to do what they are going to do anyways.
And recognizing that I love them just the same, but there comes a place where a healthy relationship can no longer be maintained for either one of us.
They may care in their own way, but I am asking something of them that they are incapable of.
— mal

when you’ve done

all you can

to be there for someone

trapped in a narcissistic

and devaluing pattern

freedom

is realizing this truth

freedom natural accountability condemnation self reliance boundaries present stuck breakup failure dependence goals happiness learning truth setbacks action gratitude soul death reality self care relationships momentum adapt response trauma reset convictions self talk worth death self love resetting focus destination in your feelings processing authenticity delusion anger magnification codependency rabbits bitterness disqualifying the positive lessons hope forgiveness insecurity counterdependence challenge progress personal responsibility damage understanding path of growth suffering peace unstuck cooperation consequences intrinsic stumbles wisdom attachments respect weakness strength centering externalization flow control love toxicity mistakes pain appreciation actions contentment abundance self discovery self deception mindfulness judgment grace self control self definition persistence breathe life healing personas support choices consistency now supply openness narcissism trust meditation success hurt mindset definition suppression belief commitment struggle complaining expectation attachment projection choice blind spots self consciousness perception expectations change anxiety connection conscious living self awareness vulnerability feelings existing self forgiveness reactivity grounding celebration perfection self knowledge insanity attention resentment cognitive distortions detachment fear self programming safety denial manipulation honesty challenges communication kindness triggered thoughts solitude worry initiative validation triggers growth journey intimacy self acceptance beliefs subconscious isolation care responsibility people pleasing impermanence compassion acceptance grief
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