living in now

failure

breakup realizations

May 15, 2025

For me, I just come to a place of recognizing they are who they are.
Who am I to want something different for them?
And stepping out of the way to allow them to do what they are going to do anyways.
And recognizing that I love them just the same, but there comes a place where a healthy relationship can no longer be maintained for either one of us.
They may care in their own way, but I am asking something of them that they are incapable of.
— mal

when you’ve done

all you can

to be there for someone

trapped in a narcissistic

and devaluing pattern

freedom

is realizing this truth

wisdom self forgiveness love grounding condemnation complaining goals focus denial choices mindset magnification peace narcissism weakness openness setbacks dependence attachments supply celebration adapt cognitive distortions connection truth compassion forgiveness perception feelings contentment codependency present self awareness anger breakup in your feelings flow subconscious insanity abundance momentum personal responsibility isolation life relationships breathe gratitude stuck reset perfection honesty learning choice destination challenge change worry self knowledge care consistency freedom path of growth triggered actions projection self discovery delusion resentment strength rabbits trauma externalization initiative journey unstuck acceptance self talk judgment communication progress bitterness self deception boundaries self definition reality commitment centering pain reactivity kindness insecurity intrinsic thoughts personas triggers attachment response manipulation self love disqualifying the positive safety mistakes action grace impermanence control consequences persistence happiness self reliance attention suppression healing convictions self control now soul death belief natural meditation stumbles authenticity intimacy death vulnerability responsibility damage mindfulness fear expectations anxiety challenges self programming people pleasing respect expectation hope blind spots existing grief suffering accountability understanding resetting trust growth validation toxicity self acceptance worth appreciation self care processing failure lessons counterdependence hurt cooperation beliefs support self consciousness conscious living definition struggle success solitude detachment
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