living in now

disqualifying the positive

pain and suffering are information

spacebetweenthespaces:

“The pain that you create now is always some form of nonacceptance, some form of unconscious resistance to what is. On the level of thought, the resistance is some form of judgment.”

Eckhart Tolle

in pain? hurting?

upset? irritated? frustrated?

worse?

you’re not accepting reality

in some way, in some place

detach from outcomes

release the negative judgment

of where you are

if you could be anywhere else

if you could have made better choices

you would have

focus on all you have

to appreciate and be thankful for

discover contentment and its companion

natural happiness

and out of acceptance

of now

of your present reality

and how you got there

see yourself

see your choices

see your mindset

see your cognitive distortions

the filters over your perceptions

that distort

all you see

magnifying and disqualifying

release your attachments

the places you’ve tied

your happiness to specific outcomes

and just peacefully work with reality

stack the deck for the future

you want to live in

anger happiness natural now expectations personal responsibility setbacks success momentum conscious living thoughts truth challenge codependency journey soul death processing compassion subconscious failure self love hurt judgment boundaries challenges externalization choices path of growth appreciation self awareness initiative manipulation existing change lessons narcissism belief acceptance projection cooperation counterdependence self programming support consistency disqualifying the positive self deception forgiveness triggers choice consequences complaining mistakes unstuck destination abundance self definition trust centering convictions vulnerability self reliance wisdom grief care validation worth celebration resentment bitterness condemnation safety isolation freedom dependence love life rabbits response blind spots contentment personas self care intimacy breakup intrinsic reactivity definition reset impermanence learning self knowledge supply detachment self discovery gratitude suppression death struggle in your feelings breathe feelings persistence accountability trauma stumbles openness damage honesty hope communication self acceptance mindset insecurity triggered attention connection stuck pain grace actions action resetting worry delusion respect toxicity weakness healing perception kindness strength self control responsibility anxiety adapt meditation reality attachment suffering growth fear mindfulness relationships present self forgiveness self talk understanding people pleasing focus progress flow peace goals denial self consciousness magnification beliefs expectation control cognitive distortions attachments insanity authenticity grounding solitude commitment perfection
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