living in now

disqualifying the positive

pain and suffering are information

spacebetweenthespaces:

“The pain that you create now is always some form of nonacceptance, some form of unconscious resistance to what is. On the level of thought, the resistance is some form of judgment.”

Eckhart Tolle

in pain? hurting?

upset? irritated? frustrated?

worse?

you’re not accepting reality

in some way, in some place

detach from outcomes

release the negative judgment

of where you are

if you could be anywhere else

if you could have made better choices

you would have

focus on all you have

to appreciate and be thankful for

discover contentment and its companion

natural happiness

and out of acceptance

of now

of your present reality

and how you got there

see yourself

see your choices

see your mindset

see your cognitive distortions

the filters over your perceptions

that distort

all you see

magnifying and disqualifying

release your attachments

the places you’ve tied

your happiness to specific outcomes

and just peacefully work with reality

stack the deck for the future

you want to live in

commitment judgment insecurity detachment trust pain openness focus appreciation worth journey gratitude choice damage forgiveness expectations momentum care validation stuck kindness trauma challenge strength grounding condemnation impermanence breathe consistency safety attachments solitude setbacks rabbits vulnerability failure support dependence self consciousness grace self control existing self forgiveness abundance progress attachment denial response honesty centering hope bitterness manipulation death soul death contentment natural initiative unstuck grief disqualifying the positive healing anger self reliance consequences magnification self love success choices feelings peace conscious living counterdependence hurt personal responsibility freedom externalization perfection people pleasing suppression action narcissism cooperation love supply breakup toxicity lessons resentment connection reset complaining accountability cognitive distortions resetting present responsibility acceptance truth compassion mistakes goals relationships intrinsic personas happiness struggle growth respect path of growth attention blind spots adapt mindfulness expectation triggered self deception thoughts delusion beliefs change weakness persistence celebration isolation reality flow authenticity in your feelings understanding reactivity self acceptance learning processing self discovery destination anxiety stumbles subconscious actions suffering communication self awareness challenges self programming fear perception codependency triggers self care wisdom now convictions insanity self definition projection control intimacy definition belief worry meditation life mindset self talk boundaries self knowledge
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