living in now

disqualifying the positive

pain and suffering are information

spacebetweenthespaces:

“The pain that you create now is always some form of nonacceptance, some form of unconscious resistance to what is. On the level of thought, the resistance is some form of judgment.”

Eckhart Tolle

in pain? hurting?

upset? irritated? frustrated?

worse?

you’re not accepting reality

in some way, in some place

detach from outcomes

release the negative judgment

of where you are

if you could be anywhere else

if you could have made better choices

you would have

focus on all you have

to appreciate and be thankful for

discover contentment and its companion

natural happiness

and out of acceptance

of now

of your present reality

and how you got there

see yourself

see your choices

see your mindset

see your cognitive distortions

the filters over your perceptions

that distort

all you see

magnifying and disqualifying

release your attachments

the places you’ve tied

your happiness to specific outcomes

and just peacefully work with reality

stack the deck for the future

you want to live in

now self forgiveness adapt momentum externalization actions trauma perception focus projection peace growth disqualifying the positive initiative relationships soul death worth unstuck delusion thoughts abundance hope reality conscious living trust isolation anger solitude lessons manipulation consequences reactivity grief detachment reset love insecurity resetting natural respect healing truth goals connection insanity perfection breakup personal responsibility struggle understanding present self acceptance processing blind spots denial impermanence self talk in your feelings celebration failure intrinsic triggers people pleasing rabbits change meditation self reliance forgiveness flow consistency dependence self knowledge self discovery self love self deception magnification worry judgment existing journey mistakes contentment challenge action stuck fear stumbles triggered self control compassion care cooperation validation attachments path of growth complaining freedom breathe condemnation commitment challenges self consciousness supply beliefs counterdependence accountability communication appreciation destination mindfulness death authenticity strength centering boundaries suffering intimacy happiness success suppression setbacks mindset vulnerability resentment self programming safety self awareness hurt belief personas bitterness grounding expectations self care anxiety acceptance attachment life expectation support cognitive distortions narcissism feelings pain responsibility gratitude subconscious toxicity definition codependency choices learning control grace attention progress wisdom persistence choice damage response convictions honesty kindness self definition weakness openness
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