living in now

externalization

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

choices disqualifying the positive self care worry unstuck hope response consistency self deception bitterness belief happiness change in your feelings blind spots pain grounding respect validation progress connection love expectation commitment contentment cooperation cognitive distortions strength reality soul death action people pleasing challenges projection solitude rabbits path of growth anxiety manipulation suffering intimacy reactivity self consciousness centering self awareness goals learning weakness impermanence mistakes self love success self knowledge resentment compassion self control perfection actions detachment peace natural present mindfulness abundance self reliance breakup dependence complaining existing trauma celebration wisdom momentum appreciation trust worth vulnerability feelings truth externalization attention now adapt resetting isolation choice stuck intrinsic meditation personal responsibility triggered anger stumbles reset control self programming condemnation conscious living care kindness supply life personas journey understanding insanity failure relationships triggers perception toxicity destination self talk support denial communication accountability healing safety persistence insecurity damage thoughts consequences gratitude forgiveness expectations self discovery convictions grief challenge codependency beliefs initiative death hurt growth flow focus attachment attachments mindset self acceptance suppression fear setbacks self definition definition responsibility authenticity honesty acceptance subconscious magnification boundaries breathe grace narcissism delusion freedom processing lessons struggle openness judgment counterdependence self forgiveness
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