living in now

externalization

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

change insecurity authenticity death people pleasing grounding strength setbacks self care meditation goals stuck attention care weakness momentum accountability consistency natural failure trust journey commitment suppression self programming support solitude freedom choices definition growth perception supply choice appreciation gratitude life compassion breathe triggers magnification boundaries mindfulness codependency stumbles expectations unstuck connection learning healing toxicity communication hope reset progress focus projection suffering in your feelings attachment insanity adapt externalization judgment self consciousness validation grace self forgiveness response truth responsibility cognitive distortions complaining existing hurt vulnerability reactivity challenges condemnation celebration perfection self definition fear safety resentment actions self control attachments self love personas success feelings self awareness intrinsic anxiety blind spots action honesty self knowledge breakup flow conscious living manipulation subconscious destination cooperation self talk delusion centering reality anger rabbits now personal responsibility self reliance understanding detachment acceptance pain resetting initiative wisdom kindness beliefs worth disqualifying the positive narcissism mindset belief dependence grief present lessons path of growth thoughts convictions impermanence consequences abundance respect persistence expectation soul death triggered processing damage challenge control worry forgiveness trauma relationships bitterness self acceptance self discovery contentment self deception intimacy happiness openness struggle love peace denial counterdependence isolation mistakes
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