living in now

externalization

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

progress wisdom understanding meditation codependency peace self forgiveness cognitive distortions momentum challenge intimacy self love weakness control counterdependence love choices personal responsibility support consistency stuck self definition communication rabbits boundaries safety bitterness judgment happiness abundance reality perfection stumbles intrinsic healing care now fear self consciousness compassion growth worry condemnation appreciation self awareness self talk flow openness lessons damage magnification authenticity consequences reactivity responsibility anger failure solitude toxicity centering self discovery freedom definition blind spots grounding dependence externalization change attachments impermanence expectations cooperation expectation triggers relationships trauma resentment vulnerability existing persistence connection adapt breathe kindness beliefs commitment narcissism initiative attention perception focus action learning goals people pleasing isolation triggered attachment honesty mistakes unstuck truth suffering convictions self acceptance resetting natural conscious living contentment response strength forgiveness mindset hurt breakup path of growth personas actions detachment death disqualifying the positive gratitude present validation insanity accountability trust delusion suppression feelings insecurity pain reset challenges processing belief setbacks projection grief manipulation self deception hope thoughts struggle denial anxiety mindfulness self knowledge supply self control complaining worth respect grace acceptance self reliance self programming destination subconscious celebration choice self care soul death journey in your feelings success life
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