living in now

externalization

justifying toxicity

compassionatereminders:

Other people don’t get to treat you badly just because they’re suffering and you don’t get to treat other people badly just because you’re suffering. We all have a responsibility not to take our pain out on others, no matter how hard what we’re going through is.

we justify

our own toxicity

when we get

in our feelings

understand your feelings

trace the thoughts

that led to them

but do not trust them

to take you

anywhere good

choices supply self definition self care attention safety understanding existing actions dependence bitterness delusion truth fear wisdom solitude personal responsibility manipulation honesty struggle self love trauma condemnation impermanence freedom processing damage hurt resetting peace forgiveness self talk feelings weakness externalization destination self reliance love hope life kindness happiness contentment grounding thoughts present self control suppression consistency relationships action rabbits worry breakup challenge counterdependence connection convictions reactivity focus success belief subconscious unstuck anger complaining soul death blind spots self awareness reality responsibility self acceptance validation initiative change codependency isolation goals people pleasing triggers self forgiveness path of growth insecurity intimacy grief self discovery magnification self programming healing expectation self consciousness momentum mindfulness flow expectations judgment denial resentment progress disqualifying the positive commitment care triggered toxicity abundance self deception strength death compassion reset suffering setbacks growth beliefs respect stuck adapt personas journey definition celebration cooperation control stumbles accountability insanity appreciation narcissism openness mistakes communication perception trust attachment choice boundaries authenticity persistence meditation detachment lessons self knowledge consequences gratitude in your feelings response mindset challenges support centering anxiety acceptance cognitive distortions grace vulnerability attachments projection worth pain breathe failure now intrinsic learning conscious living natural perfection
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