living in now

consequences

breakup realizations

For me, I just come to a place of recognizing they are who they are.
Who am I to want something different for them?
And stepping out of the way to allow them to do what they are going to do anyways.
And recognizing that I love them just the same, but there comes a place where a healthy relationship can no longer be maintained for either one of us.
They may care in their own way, but I am asking something of them that they are incapable of.
— mal

when you’ve done

all you can

to be there for someone

trapped in a narcissistic

and devaluing pattern

freedom

is realizing this truth

care feelings definition journey freedom celebration supply response appreciation anger truth now vulnerability happiness understanding present destination self talk suffering commitment hurt soul death challenge control honesty insecurity reactivity validation love struggle momentum rabbits processing boundaries peace resentment expectations intrinsic intimacy connection self forgiveness acceptance expectation self deception insanity people pleasing grounding toxicity focus self awareness abundance respect self discovery change complaining healing projection self care fear narcissism personas flow self love path of growth thoughts relationships codependency existing disqualifying the positive dependence attention stuck reset wisdom in your feelings solitude belief mistakes self knowledge success trauma adapt perfection cognitive distortions mindfulness weakness consequences breakup reality triggers subconscious attachment responsibility communication growth grace self definition goals self programming lessons kindness beliefs anxiety cooperation manipulation initiative worth hope self reliance progress death grief breathe choices compassion contentment authenticity delusion persistence detachment personal responsibility choice accountability safety stumbles impermanence consistency challenges resetting actions externalization openness isolation attachments natural action failure damage blind spots life triggered support strength meditation forgiveness trust self control self acceptance setbacks worry suppression conscious living bitterness denial unstuck mindset condemnation gratitude self consciousness convictions centering perception judgment learning pain magnification counterdependence
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