a boundary

is not a boundary

if there’s no consequence

for crossing it

learn to set them

learn to enforce them

without reactivity

learn to recognize

when you’re attempting

to control others

without consent

and crossing healthy boundaries

they may not even know

to set

cherryderriere:

1980vibes:

when someone fucks you over, don’t you dare ask yourself, “what did i do to deserve this?”  NOTHING. you didn’t do shit. someone taking advantage of your kindness will never be your fault.

Wow…this hits close to home. 

you are not

responsible

for the choices

others make

iamstrongallonmyown:

therapywithmaddie ~ Instagram

process your feelings

or you will see them

used against you