living in now

other people’s choices

cherryderriere:

1980vibes:

when someone fucks you over, don’t you dare ask yourself, “what did i do to deserve this?”  NOTHING. you didn’t do shit. someone taking advantage of your kindness will never be your fault.

Wow…this hits close to home. 

you are not

responsible

for the choices

others make

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