living in now

false selves are the easy way out

thoughtkick:

“It’s a hell of a responsibility to be yourself. It’s much easier to be somebody else or nobody at all.”

— Sylvia Plath

it’s much more terrifying

than crafting a false persona

a fake personality, a fake person

or persons

culled from popular culture

and your friends

in order to be accepted

but it’s a slow death

on the inside, dying

while still living

just existing

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